I seen this picture on instagram and it inspired me to speak. I dated a "boy" who had a thing for lying and cake, specifically having his cake and eating it too. That is my first initial reason. . Dating is totally new thing now, I'm not that old but i have definitely seen a change in how men and woman approach each other, and I have to say that social media really helped with that. Its almost as if people don't even court anymore. Its all about just texting to get to know each other and the infamous "netflix and chill". My real reason as to why I'm still single is because I know I'm not ready. I know there is more work for me to do, on my self. There is more to me that needs to be developed, more things I need to come to terms with and accept about my self, and then there are things that need to change so I become a better me. What i needed to realize is that there is no point in playing house when your still trying to figure out who you are as a person. People try to make you feel less than because they understand or think they understand who they are before you got your chance to find about your self.. The reason they do this is because they could just very well be not 100% satisfied with who they are. I've noticed that there is more to me and my life that i have to get in place. I very well found this out while speaking with God. Im not going to get Holy on you because thats not me, but just by speaking to him, not begging for help but simply expressing that i know what needs to be done, more mistakes will be made and knowing he has my back, makes me happy. Being single is not death, its a great and uncomfortable time to get to know you and your surrondings. So while single take the time to focus on what you feel like is most important to you and face those negative aspects that YOU KNOW won't help you flourish through you life. I'm saying all of this to say I know there is more to me and to who ever else needed to hear a little inspiration. So let us start our work and BECOME THE SUN! |